Thursday, July 12, 2007

Want to Flirt? Think Twice!


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Flirting is a form of human interaction, usually expressing a sexual or romantic interest in the other person. It can consist of conversation, body language or brief physical contact. It may be one-sided or reciprocated. The common reason how flirting started when you have problems with your current relationship. Lack of communication.. your quality time with each other.. bla..bla..(you named it.. )

Flirting is often used as a means of expressing interest and gauging the other person's interest in courtship, which can continue into long term relationships. In other situations, it may be done simply for immediate entertainment, with no intention of developing any further relationship. This type of flirting sometimes faces disapproval from others, either because it can be misinterpreted as more serious, or it may be viewed as dishonest if the person is already in a romantic relationship with someone else (sila lihat cincin di jari ok). For me.. everything comes from our first intention why you want to flirt and do you really need to flirt? Common reason: To boost yourself, saying you still 'got it' or it just come to revenge? Men always be blame in this situation.. but to be realistic.. woman did it too..
So, if you are married (yes.. I'm talking to you), there are tips about this issues.. Monitor your marriage.. if you find there's something missing.. be willing to try to fix it. Stay alert for temptations, be very careful of getting involved in the first place, know the dangers. You can be drawn to an affair as to a drug. Value the intimacy of your marriage. Reveal as much of yourself to one another as possible,then you will find it less necessary to form an intimate friendship with someone else.

So, moral of the story, Don't flirt!. ''That is how affairs start,'''Flirting is not part of an innocent friendship. If you think there might be a problem with someone you flirt with, THERE PROBABLY IS A PROBLEM. I rest my case!

Kepada yang dah kawen.. yang akan kawen.. dan yang tak nak kawen.. jangan main api kecuali korang tu David Blaine..Ha..ha.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

"You can be drawn to an affair as to a drug"

Flirting will make your skin glows.. Drugs will make you suffer.. kurus?

Sape nak kurus angkat tangan?

*ha ha.. tak relevan langsung apa yang aku komen!!!!

amn
bad girl gone good!

Anonymous said...

ahaks.. r u talking to me?..

flirting takda.. kawan2 ada.. hahaha

agl

Anonymous said...

Nak test power heh.. Anyway.. it depends how strong your feeling towards your marriage.. Don't be so selfish ok..